When I started writing this post, it was gonna be a full on rant, but I took some time to reflect and decided I could either be a shell of a person, miserable and broken, OR I could appreciate the good and positive experiences and make this a moment of gratitude.Continue reading “Change your mindset: Rae’s Violet Adventures”
Let me take you back to where it started, when I re-downloaded dating apps for the who-knows-what-number time. It seems so long ago. February 2020 was, QUITE LITERALLY, the beginning of a different time.
I was just scrolling through Twitter one night and laughing at dumb stuff, sharing some of it with my roommate through DMs as she swiped through Tinder. She sent me this guy’s profile who she was cracking up over because of his haircut and something in his profile. I was disappointed to realize I couldn’t see the account and laugh without a profile.
“I thought you had Tinder?” she asked when I told her I couldn’t see the link she sent.Continue reading “Contemporary “Love” and Online Dating: Pre-Panny Tales, Pt. I”
I’m not lying when I say I have been booked and busy. Since the beginning of the pandemic last year, I have stayed doing something, whether it was going to school or working.Continue reading “Rae’s Violet Work Life 2021”
When Black and Indigenous women go missing, it doesn’t make national headlines or dominate the news for weeks.Continue reading “When invisible women go missing”
Just the opposite of Part I, which you should read HERE.Continue reading “Strong. Independent. Black. Woman. Part II”